do not miscontrue my statement
i do agree with the statement "when you compare to others you will know your strength and weaknesses", i strongly agree on that. don't misquote me, when i stated do not compare to other if that will make you decline your self esteem, but indeed, no one can control your mind, if you detect your weakness and you are keen on to improve it, then it is good, just gear up to do so, but contradictory if you detect the weakness but you do nothing and feel you are worse than others, then better for you to stop comparing yourself to others. compare, in a positive way, which can make you grow and become a better man, not to compare and make you inferior. i am trying to put it in layman English and make the facts simple to understand, as some of you complaining that i am using too "deep?" lingua. frankly speaking, i am not good in English at all, i do a lot of grammatical mistake and apply a lot of unappropiate words. do forgive me and pardon me. always find a way to improve ourselves, compare in a positive way, learn from the best, not to make self worse. i am learning as you, and i am trying to improve my lauzy english as well. so lets us learn from each other, compare to each other, learn the strength and fix the weak.
October 7, 2008 at 11:50 PM you're too......... modest!!!!!!!!
October 8, 2008 at 5:01 PM i am modest, i know myself very well.