"If you work harder, you will get luckier" per Anita Sarawak dictum.

pardon me because in this blog i am going to be a bit over and above normal morality standard. by the virtues of Human Right Act 1998 and the rights of freedom as describe in the Constitution, i am about to exercise my rights. I am not here to critic nor to be sarcastic to pinpoint anyone, i am merely express my opinion after a turkey talk to some experts.

customer is King. i do agree with the statement, but not all the time, as young v bristol, there is always exception. when you are dealing with the normal homo sapien, then everything is just fine. the hardship arises when you are dealing with those alienate themselves, and you have to find a million ways try to comprehend the situation and make yourself into their world. it is truly exasperate to communicate with this kind of monster.

i define narcissism as someone who is astonishingly believe that he is the best among the peers and he has everything with him, namely knowledge, wisdom, IQ, EQ, MQ, CQ, AQ(or whatever Qs), wealth, appearance, and he is definitely is a looker, physically and mentally sound as a bell, and he treat himself as the jewel in the crown, but one thing for sure, he cannot take any critics and this will drive him in pique or egg on. i do not deny that there is someone seems to me as perfect, but that is only one out of a trillions or more, (e.g. Mother Teresa), but you? i am sorry, you are just a joker for me.

autism, sounds hard to define. as far as i can tell, it is a mission impossible to challenge to deal with this group of genius. it is always in vain. either they are over narcissist or over autistic. you are almost find no door or path to enter into his world. he is like living in no man land. they tends to cast themselves away from mankind (if not mankind, then what kind of creature are they trying to contact to?). everyday you repeatedly see the same face, the face that without any expression! you can never ever define or tell a sad, sorrow, happy, bliss or joyful expression. the muscle of the face is such a way that no longer in control. i am sorry, i am totally surrender to this group of geniuses.

actually narcissist or autist is still consider as good, if compare to another group of rubbish. they are the in-between product. forgive my lousy English, i have no idea what are they known as or called of. on one side they seems to be so independence, but on the other hand they are so hinge on others. it is a very complicated situation. let me enlighten you with one example, in lecture, they will do whatever they like as they were in their own castle or mansion (as i have a friend who own a mansion, she really can do anything in her mansion!), they pay no attention to you, suggesting that you are worthless sycophant that not deserve to show up in front of them. what bizarre me is when the time comes, id est assignment or presentation, farcically they will turn themselves to amoeba, and mix themselves well with the communities. they are now totally depending on others as like a freeloader. Perfect! the adaptation instinct make them survive til today.

the narcissism and autist are both belong to the extreme groups. the advice that you give may either be take it or leave it by them. you will only have two result, to be demoralized or haughty. You reap what you sow, but what if you sow the spoil seeds? what do you expect from them? A miracle? Dream on! not even in a blue moon. i rated these groups as "not bad" because they will never make any sound in your lesson, totally mute. it is consider good, at least they stil respect the rest and not creating any disturbance.

in front of you, they remain silence even they facing problem. at the back, they keep on complaining even they know they can seek for your advise almost anytime (consultation, msn, email, lecture, tutorial, lab). if there is a wish there is a way. they are just like flies, irritating + disgusting + annoying + irking + exasperating. the third group is definitely a disaster to mankind.

human and insect just don't click.