"If you work harder, you will get luckier" per Anita Sarawak dictum.

which colors you want to have in your life? the life can be as plain as a white paper or colorful as a rainbow. personally, i don't think making a decision in a very short duration is a wise move. there is always a horse of different color. instead of painting the whole paper with just one color, why not you try to have a small spots for other colors? only when you pain the different colors on the paper then you will see the true effect, it is imprudent to listen to others instead of trying out by yourself. why you want to limit yourself to just one or two colors? there are million of colors out there for you to choose. the color that you don't know doesn't means it does not exist.

imagine if the bees are just yellow, flowers are just red, everything only has one plain color, what do you think? don't you think it is too dull? there is nothing is absolutely right or wrong, just like black and white, we always have the decision is right in this particular case but it is a wrong decision in another case. that is why God awarded us gray color, it never be black nor white. it is just in between. even the sky is always blue, but it has the clouds to decorate it, and they changes the colors and pattern from time to time too. everything in nature is so fashionable, so why not our life?

Life is just a bowl of cherries. it is always full with surprises, astonishment, excitement, perturbation,and ... words fail me to describe it further, i can make a turkey talk in this, as conclusion, life is just so wonderful, isn't it? undeniably, sometimes we will face antagonism, ambivalent and animosity, we lost our direction and we tends to become schizophrenia. before you shut the door, why not you just walk out from the door and see around? there are still so many doors open for you to enter, just go ahead and have a look in each door before you decide which door you want to enter. in my previous blog, i did mention about "life is about choices". before you decide to leave the room and shut door, ask yourself, did you do your best? is it truth that this is not what you want? is it really your own decision? have you try out other methods before you quit? did you figure out why you can't make it? i will never leave anything behind without knowing the reason, even if i were to quit, at least i tried and i know the reason why i quit. if never try, you will never know.

i have no intention to become a preacher. for me, life is just like a paper. you are the one to decide what color you want to pain on it. everyone in your life is like ships that pass in the night. they are part of the colors that you choose. you have to separate the sheep from the goats. some are worse, they are wolf in sheep's clothing. try out all different colors on your paper and choose the best few to paint the nicest picture in your life. remember, its YOUR life, not belong to anyone! no one should ever instruct you to decide your future!