"If you work harder, you will get luckier" per Anita Sarawak dictum.

How you differentiate between love and devotion? affair and amour?

when two are in love, even the blind also can sense the loveliness. "LOVE" is printed on their forehead. the body movements, the speech, the eyes sight, everything can tell. love is in the air, when two falling head over heels in love, it is seems like they are the only two human on earth, anything and everything can be ignored.

love is so wonderful and fascinating, isn't it?

i never let "love" to blind me, maybe you would think that i am very realistic, yes, i admit it. i might be head over heels in love with someone, but i will never devote 100%. blindness 70% + 30% rational, that's my principle. love is blind, i agreed 101%, but for me, maximum is only 70%. the higher the crest you achieve, the deeper the trough you fall.

love and affair, what say you?

where is the ambit of love and devotion, and affair and amour, i think it is only depend on the parties involve. as you and me, we do have love between us, but it is merely a love of friendship. we ought to know the distinction between all kind of loves, before we jump to the conclusion and saying others are having affair. it is quite a serious and heavy accusation. what make you so certain about their relationship?

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. having an affair is none of our business, from my personal point of view, unless you were the party involve. assuming that you know both parties, and they are your close relative, if so happen you discovered the affair, so, what are you going to do? echoing to everyone? privately settle the matter? or leave it, pretending nothing happen? Don't you think you should at least conduct an investigation and collect more information.

when love comes, you just can't hold it or avoid it. there is nothing you can do. love is blind. if you were so loyal and faithful to your another half, where is the issue of affair come from? misunderstanding and wrong perception sometimes will lead to a deadlock, and you may even worsen the situation. think twice before you moves.

why want to crucify the holy love before you scrutinize the real situation?