why you care

huhhhhhhh u wan to tell me what happen? why suddenly.....why u care so much about what others say about u? just like me, if i care so much then i think i need to quit my job d.

sometimes we might feel hurt at first, but after you take a deep breath and calm yourself, you will find that actually ppl saying so mcuh bad things about you maybe (1) they don't know you, (2) they know you but don't know what is happening, (3) they know you and know what is happening, (4) they jealous about you, (5) they just want to hurt you, (6) they are just joking.

the thing is: why let your anger blind yourself? just like the 5 star hotel cook, even he got the best award for his dishes, but for me, it is just nothing special, different ppl have diff taste, definitely diff ppl will have different thinking as well. same issue but some ppl take it easily but some take it as the end of the world. it is all depends on how mature you are to see the issue from different angels.

diff ppl have diff perspective. when you cast your angel and let your adrenaline to be reduced, you can think rational and logically. don't let the emotion take over your mind, be the master of your mind. analyze the issue, if at the moment you can't think of anything, then either go out take a walk or go to sleep, don't think of anything at the moment, after some time you will find it actually not so big deal as you think it is.

there is no solution when emotion ruling your mind. rationale will only come to mind when you are cool and calm. myself also a hot temper person, so every time when i am so fad up about something, i will take a toilet break. i will hide in the toilet and cool myself till i calm (of course toilet msut be clean n nice). there are students saying i am good but there are also a bunch of students label me as insane n xyz too.

if you were in my shoes, what will you do? explain to them one by one? if ppl already have a negative mind set about you, do you think just with mere explanation they will regain the trust on you or listen to you? don't be silly. you are dealing with human being, not monkey. don't let them poke fun at you and make a monkey out of you. they never listen! thats the fact!

everyone is wearing a mask in order to survive, you like it or not, it is the rule of the game. everyone is pretending. the earlier you know the truth, the better. i don't know what is bothering so much because you always keep everything to yourself, you never share or open yourself to others. just like me, sometimes feel something wrong with you but because others are around i dare not ask you and pretending nothing happen, but, if i were to ask you, do you really ready to tell me? i doubt it.

everyone has his own secret, it is buried deep inside our inner heart. i have my too, and i will never allow anyone try to figure it out. if you were to touch on that, i will no longer your friend or family. i mean it. i belief you have your own too. if you really can't share it with others, then just write on a piece of paper, after you write it, don't read it, just burn it straight away. let it be vanquished to ashes.

you don't have to share everything with others, and you don't have to care about everything, anything what others comment on you. why want to bother? if you take the comment positively, then you will fix the bugs and improve yourself, but if you take it negatively til you lost yourself, then what is the point? you demoralize yourself and decline your self esteem, is it worth? balance the good and bad, pro and con by yourself.

grow up, dude, it is time to realize that not everyone is pure and holy as me. you must learn how to judge people and yourself. you must grow up. don;t let the small matters tumble and crumble your faith. if you feel not easy to speak it out, then why not write to me? sometimes through writing is more easier to speak out what you want to say. express it in words to me. if you are too shy to let me know, then just type it out then after that you delete it.

it is new year. don't let the past haunt you and set you down. stand up and fight it. don't bother what ppl comment on you, you are who you are, just be yourself. why care? you owe no obligation to do what they want? who are they? if it is for your own good then you better make it, but if you are so reluctant to it and bring only detriment and suffer, then forget and let go it. take it positively or leave it. just simple like that.

your fate in your hand. your destination be a good ending or tragic depend on your attitude and how you handle it. the result is actually in your hand, you are the one to control the best outcome or the worst. choose your own journey and make your own decision, i am just here to provide craps and nonsense. just be yourself. ignore others. take it positively to improve yourself or leave it.

all the best for the new year. be a brand new you. make a change on yourself. let the past be passed, okay?

 

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